Would this type of body piercing be morally wrong?
People usually kringe at the thought of having their genitals pierced. However the "frenum piercing" is nothing more than a piercing on the loose skin on the underside of the head of the penis. This is the same loose skin that is cut during circumcision, it’s just skin that’s pierced not the actual penile organ itself. It is not painful and is a sexual enhancement for your partner. Since there are different methods of enhancing sexual performance of the male anatomy such as penile enlargement, shots to give oneself an erection in erectile disfunction men, etc…. and these are considered to be an individuals personal choice… would getting a piercing such as the "frenum piercing", which again is the sole purpose of sexual enhancement for one’s mate… and maybe adornment, be morally wrong?
BTW… I am married. So this is a decision for within my marriage, not to practice adultery.
EWWWW!! God made the human body quite sufficient, this is defacing his creation plus I don’t care about your explanation, it still makes me cringe.
December 31st, 2009 at 7:27 pm
I find it too tribal but I see nothing morally wrong with it.
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December 31st, 2009 at 8:04 pm
not morally wrong, just painful
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December 31st, 2009 at 8:44 pm
Icky!
But to each his own. Just don’t come up to me and ask if I want to see your booboo…
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December 31st, 2009 at 9:00 pm
Hey, if you want it done, that’s cool.
For me, though, yeesh, it gives me goosebumps to even contemplate.
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December 31st, 2009 at 9:07 pm
If I ever hear any complaints, I might consider it.
But I’m 50, so…
("Hey Mom, check THIS out…)
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December 31st, 2009 at 9:43 pm
The only thing i find wrong about it is if you have a partner with braces. HELLO emergency room!
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December 31st, 2009 at 10:08 pm
Who cares how morally wrong it is? The simple fact is is that’s POINTLESS! The only one who’d see it is you and whoever is sucking/effing your d!ck, and being a girl, I would not like a foreign metal penis object in my mouth or vagina. It is most certainly not a sexual enhancement. I have read stories in (lol) Cosmopolitan about women whose boyfriend’s penis-piercings got caught in their mouths.
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December 31st, 2009 at 10:23 pm
No. It all depends on the person and their taste though. I for one think its hott. I think its just as morally wrong as any other piercing which is not at all. Rock on!
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December 31st, 2009 at 11:12 pm
Only the ear, belly button and nose are permissable.
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The Tatoo Hater’s Guide To Decency
December 31st, 2009 at 11:22 pm
if my former christian self were answering this question, he would say yes. yes, b/c this act encourages "adultery’" which is undoubtedly a sin. take ned flanders for instance, i know he’s a made up character, but he is considered a true christian, i’m assumind you’re christian. there was an episode where he was showering w/ shorts on. he said that he does that so he wouldn’t look at his penis. b/c one thing leads to another and another….(you get it). but me now (atheist) would say GO FOR IT. Especially, if you’re not "big." if you are, then it might not be a good idea.
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someone’s who’s thinking about doing the same thing.
December 31st, 2009 at 11:27 pm
well, if you plan on going out with it hanging out, then yes, i think many would consider that morally wrong.
But, if you plan on keeping it hidden, and I seriously hope that’s the case, save for sex, dressing, undressing, and showering, ect., then no, I don’t think anyone would have a problem with it. some mates may not find it arousing or even making that much of a difference in sex, but if that is what yours wants and you’re okay with that, go for it.
The only thing I suggest is that you don’t bring up that sort of topic at the dinner table.
Hope that helps!
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December 31st, 2009 at 11:58 pm
I can’t see that it would be morally wrong, but I also can’t see why an intelligent person would put themselves through that kind of pain.
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January 1st, 2010 at 12:33 am
As long as you don’t use a photo of the pierced member as your avatar, I don’t have a problem with it.
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January 1st, 2010 at 12:44 am
i dont have a problem with it, just keep it away from me
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atheist who doesnt like the look of a pierced dik
January 1st, 2010 at 1:13 am
EWWWW!! God made the human body quite sufficient, this is defacing his creation plus I don’t care about your explanation, it still makes me cringe.
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LDS In this life and the next
January 1st, 2010 at 1:36 am
probably a piercing of the genitals…
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January 1st, 2010 at 2:09 am
Why would you poke holes in your body, which is the very temple of the Holy Spirit? To alter the design of what is perfect according to His purpose is, yes, an abomination—-sorry.
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Bible, Holy Spirit, biblical common sense.
January 1st, 2010 at 2:21 am
28 " ‘Do not cut your bodies for the dead or put tattoo marks on yourselves. I am the LORD.
The principle in the Bible is to show respect for the human body because it is made in G-d’s image. People do pierce their ears or noses (in the Bible), but that was the extent of it.
For Adornment?
1 Peter 3:3 (Written addressed to women but applicable to all believers) Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. 4Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.
For Sexual Enhancement?
The best "sexual enhancement" is the safety and protection that comes from a faithful marriage relationship full of trust and good communication.
The most important principle is to honor G-d with your body.
1 Corinthians 6 "19Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.
There is no specific command against piercing your body, but there is one
Not to cut oneself or make incisions in one’s flesh in grief, like the idolaters (Lev. 19:28; Deut. 14:1)
Not to tattoo the body like the idolaters (Lev. 19:28)
Personally, I think you might be reading or watching something that has put such ideas into your head, and that it would be better not to be reading or watching such things.
What does your wife say?
Does the procedure put you (or her) at more of a health risk?
I don’t think there is a moral law against it… but a good rule of thumb is "If in doubt, do without."
Philippians 4:8
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.
That is the best way to enhance your relationship.
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http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?book_id=3&chapter=19&verse=27&end_verse=29&version=31&context=context
January 1st, 2010 at 3:10 am
In bible times there were three types of piercings. One in the ear, and two in the nose, One on the side or one in the middle of the mistrals Genesis 24:29,30, 47; Ex 35:20-22; Ezekiel 16:12,14. I didnt find any other piercings in the bible.
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